Saturday 26 July 2008

The Status of Woman in Islam

The Status of Woman in Islam from "Islam in focus" By Hammuda Abdul-Ati, PH.D.

The status of woman in Islam constitutes no problem. The attitude of the Qur'an and the early Muslims bear witness to the fact that woman is, at least, as vital to life as man himself, and that she is not inferior to him nor is she one of the lower species. Had it not been for the impact of foreign cultures and alien influences, this question would have never arisen among the Muslims. The status of woman was taken for granted to be equal to that of man. It was a matter of course, a matter of fact, and no one, then, considered it as a problem at all.

In order to understand what Islam has established for woman, there is no need to deplore her plight in the pre-Islamic era or in the modern world of today. Islam has given woman rights and privileges which she has never enjoyed under other religious or constitutional systems. This can be understood when the matter is studied as a whole in a comparative manner, rather than partially. The rights and responsibilities of a woman are equal to those of a man but they are not necessarily identical with them. Equality and sameness are two quite different things. This difference is understandable because man and woman are not identical but they are created equals. With this distinction in mind, There is no problem. It is almost impossible to find even two identical men or women.

This distinction between equality and sameness is of paramount importance. Equality is desirable, just, fair; but sameness is not. People are not created identical but they are created equals. With this distinction in mind, there is no room to imagine that woman is inferior to man. There is no ground to assume that she is less important than he just because her rights are not identically the same as his. Had her status been identical with his, she would have been simply a duplicate of him, which she is not. The fact that Islam gives her equal rights - but not identical - shows that it takes her into due consideration, acknowledges her, and recognizes her independent personality.

It is not the tone of Islam that brands woman as the product of the devil or the seed of evil. Nor does the Qur'an place man as the dominant lord of woman who has no choice but to surrender to his dominance. Nor was it Islam that introduced the question of whether or not woman has any soul in her. Never in the history of Islam has any Muslim doubted the human status of woman or her possession of soul and other fine spiritual qualities. Unlike other popular beliefs, Islam does not blame Eve alone for the First Sin. The Qur'an makes it very clear that both Adam and Eve were tempted; that they both sinned; that God's pardon was granted to both after their repentance; and that God addressed them jointly. (2:35-36); 7:19, 27; 20:117-123). In fact the Qur'an gives the impression that Adam was more to blame for that First Sin from which emerged prejudice against woman and suspicion of her deeds. But Islam does not justify such prejudice or suspicion because both Adam and Eve were equally in error, and if we are to blame Eve we should blame Adam as much or even more.

The status of woman in Islam is something unique, something novel, something that has no similarity in any other system. If we look to the Eastern Communist world or to the democratic nations, we find that woman is not really in a happy position. Her status is not enviable. She has to work so hard to live, and sometimes she may be doing the same job that a man does but her wage is less than his. She enjoys a kind of liberty which in some cases amounts to libertinism. To get to where she is nowadays, woman struggled hard for decades and centuries. To gain the right of learning and the freedom of work and earning, she had to offer painful sacrifices and give up many of her natural rights. To establish her status as a human being possessing a soul, she paid heavily. Yet in spite of all these costly sacrificeqs and painful struggles, she has not acquired what Islam has established by a Divine decree for the Muslim woman.

The rights of woman of modern times were not granted voluntarily or out of kindness to the female. Modern woman reached her present position by force, and not through natural processes or mutual consent or Divine teachings. She had to force her way, and various circumstances came to her aid. Shortage of manpower during wars, pressure of economic needs and requirements of industrial developments forced woman to get out of her home - to work, to learn, to struggle for her livelihood, to appear as an equal to man, to run her race in the course of life side by side with him. She was forced by circumstances and in turn she forced herself through and acquired her new status. Whether all women were pleased with these circumstances being on their side, and whether they are happy and satisfied with the results of this course is a different matter. But the fact remains that whatever rights modern woman enjoys fall short of those of her Muslim counterpart. What Islam has established for woman is that which suits her nature, gives her full security and protects her against disgraceful circumstances and uncertain channels of life. We do not need here to elaborate on the status of modern woman and the risks she runs to make her living or establish herself. We do not even need to explore the miseries and setbacks that encircle her as a result of the so-called rights of woman. Nor do we intend to manipulate the situation of many unhappy homes which break because of the very "freedom" and "rights" of which modern woman is proud. Most women today exercise the right of freedom to go out independently, to work and earn, to pretend to be equal to man, but this, sadly enough, is at the expense of their families. This all known and obvious. What is not known is the status of woman in Islam. An attempt will be made in the following passages to sum up the attitude of Islam with regard to woman.


1. Woman is recognized by Islam as a full and equal partner of man in the procreation of humankind. He is the father; she is the mother, and both are essential for life. Her role is not less vital than his. By this partnership she has an equal share in every aspect; she is entitled to equal rights; she undertakes equal responsibilities, and in her there are as many qualities and as much humanity as there are in her partner. To this equal partner- ship in the reproduction of human kind God says:
2.
O mankind! Verily We have created your from a single (pair) of a male and a female,m and made you into nations and tribes that you may know each other... (Qur'an, 49:13; cf. 4:1).

3. She is equal to man in bearing personal and common responsibilities and in receiving rewards for her deeds. She is acknowledged as an independent personality, in possession of human qualities and worthy of spiritual aspirations. Her human nature is neither inferior to nor deviant from that of man. Both are members of one another. God says:
And their Lord has accepted (their prayers) and answered them (saying): 'Never will I cause to be lost the work of any of you, be he male or female; you are members, one of another... (3:195; cf 9:71;33:35-36;66:19-21).

4. She is equal to man in the pursuit of education and knowledge. When Islam enjoins the seeking of knowledge upon Muslims, it makes no distinction between man and woman. Almost fourteen centuries ago, Muhammad declared that the pursuit of knowledge is incumbent on every Muslim male and female. This declaration was very clear and was implemented by Muslims throughout history.

5. She is entitled to freedom of expression as much as man is. Her sound opinions are taken into consideration and cannot be disregarded just because she happen to belong to the female sex. It is reported in the Qur'an and history that woman not only expressed her opinion freely but also argued and participated in serious discussions with the Prophet himself as well as with other Muslim leaders (Qur'an, 58:1-4; 60:10-12). Besides there were occasions when Muslim women expressed their views on legislative matters of public interest, and stood in opposition to the Caliphs, who then accepted the sound arguments of these women. A specific example took place during the Califate of Umar Ibn al-Khattab.

6. Historical records show that women participated in public life with the early Muslims, especially in times of emergencies. Women used to accompany the Muslim armies engaged in battles to nurse the wounded, prepare supplies, serve the warriors, and so on. They were not shut behind iron bars or considered worthless creatures and deprived of souls.


7. Islam grants woman equal rights to contract, to enterprise, to earn and possess independently. Her life, her property, her honor are as sacred as those of man. If she commits any offense, her penalty is no less or more than of man's in a similar case. If she is wronged or harmed, she gets due compensations equal to what a man in her position would get (2:178;4:45, 92-93).

8. Islam does not state these rights in a statistical form and then relax. It has taken all measures to safeguard them and put them into practice as integral articles of Faith. It never tolerates those who are inclined to prejudice against woman or discrimination between man and woman. Time and again, the Qur'an reproaches those who used to believe woman to be inferior to man (16:57-59, 62; 42:47-59; 43:15-19; 53:21-23).


9. Apart from recognition of woman as an independent human being acknowledged as equally essential for the survival of humanity, Islam has given her a share of inheritance. Before Islam, she was not only deprived of that share but was herself considered as property to be inherited by man. Out of that transferable property Islam made an heir, acknowledging the inherent human qualifies in woman. Whether she is a wife or mother, a sister or daughter, she receives a certain share of the deceased kin's property, a share which depends on her degree of relationship to the deceased and the number of heirs. This share is hers, and no one can take it away or disinherit her. Even if the deceased wishes to deprive her by making a will to other relations or in favor of any other cause, the Law will not allow him to do so. Any proprietor is permitted to make his will within the limit of one-third of his property, so he may not affect the rights of his heirs, men and women. In the case of inheritance, the question of quality and sameness is fully applicable. In principle, both man and woman are equally entitled to inherit the property of the deceased relations but the portions they get may vary. In some instances man receives two shares whereas woman gets one only. This no sign of giving preference or supremacy to man over woman.The reasons why man gets more in these particular instances may be classified as follows:

First man, is the person solely responsible for the complete maintenance of his wife, his family and any other needy relations. It is his duty by Law to assume all financial responsibilities and maintain his dependents adequately. It is also his duty to contribute financially to all good causes in his society. All financial burdens are borne by him alone.

Secondly, in contrast, woman has no financial responsibilities whatsoever except very little of her personal expenses, the high luxurious things that she likes to have. She is financially secure and provided for. If she is a wife, her husband is the provider; if she is a mother, it is the son; if she is a daughter, it is the father; if she is a sister; it is the brother, and so on. If she has no relations on whom she can depend, then there is no question of inheritance because there is nothing to inherit and there is no one to bequeath anything to her. However, she will not be left to starve, maintenance of such a woman is the responsibility of the society as a whole, the state. She may be given aid or a job to earn her living, and whatever money she makes will be hers. She is not responsible for the maintenance of anybody else besides herself. If there is a man in her position, he would still be responsible for his family and possibly any of his relations who need his help. So, in the hardest situation her financial responsibility is limited, while his is unlimited.

Thirdly, when a woman gets less than a man does, she is not actually deprived of anything that she has worked for. The property inherited is not the result of her earning or her endeavors. It is something coming to them from a neutral source, something additional or extra. It is something that neither man or woman struggled for. It is a sort of aid, and any aid has to be distributed according to the urgent needs and responsibilities especially when the distribution is regulated by the Law of God.

Now, we have a male heir, on one side, burdened with all kinds of financial responsibilities and liabilities. We have, on the other side, a female heir with no financial responsibilities at all or at most with very little of it. In between we have some property and aid to redistribute by way of inheritance. If we deprive the female completely, it would be unjust to her because she is related to the deceased. Likewise, if we always give her a share equal to the man's, it would be unjust to him. So, instead of doing injustice to either side, Islam gives the man a larger portion of the inherited property to help him to meet his family needs and social responsibilities. At the same time, Islam has not forgotten her altogether, but has given her a portion to satisfy her very personal needs. In fact, Islam in this respect is being more kind to her than to him. Here we can say that when taken as a whole the rights of woman are equal to those of man although not necessarily identical (see Qur'an, 4:11-14, 176).

10. In some instances of bearing witness to certain civil contracts, two men are required or one man and two women. Again, this is no indication of the woman being inferior to man. It is a measure of securing the rights of the contracting parties, because woman as a rule, is not so experienced in practical life as man. This lack of experience may cause a loss to any party in a given contract. So the Law requires that at least two women should bear witness with one man. if a woman of the witness forgets something, the other one would remind her. Or if she makes an error, due to lack of experience, the other would help to correct her. This is a precautionary measure to guarantee honest transactions and proper dealings between people. In fact, it gives woman a role to play in civil life and helps to establish justice. At any rate, lack of experience in civil life does not necessarily mean that women is inferior to man in her status. Every human being lacks one thing or another, yet no one questions their human status (2:282).

11. Woman enjoys certain privileges of which man is deprived. She is exempt from some religious duties, i.e., prayers and fasting, in her regular periods and at times of confinement. She is exempt from all financial liabilities. As a mother, she enjoys more recognition and higher honor in the sight of God (31:14-15;46:15). The Prophet acknowledged this honor when he declared that Paradise is under the feet of the mothers. She is entitled to three-fourths of the son's love and kindness with one-fourth left for their father. As a wife she is entitled to demand of her prospective husband a suitable dowry that will be her own. She is entitled to complete provision and total maintenance by the husband. She does not have to work or share with her husband the family expenses. She is free to retain, after marriage, whatever she possessed before it, and the husband has no right whatsoever to any of her belongings. As a daughter or sister she is entitled to security and provision by the father and brother respectively. That is her privilege. If she wishes to work or be self-supporting and participate in handling the family responsibilities, she is quite free to do so, provided her integrity and honor are safeguarded.

12. The standing of woman in prayers behind man does not indicate in any sense that she is inferior to him. Woman, as already mentioned, is exempt from attending congregational prayers which are obligatory on man. But if she does attend she stands in separate lines made up of women exclusively . This is a regulation of discipline in prayers, and not a classification of importance. In men's rows the head of state stands shoulder to shoulder to the pauper. Men of the highest ranks in society stand in prayer side by side with other men of the lowest ranks. The order of lines in prayers is introduced to help every one to concentrate in his meditation. It is very important because Muslim prayers are not simply chanting or the sing-a-song type. They involve actions, motions, standing, bowing, prostration, etc. So if men mix with women in the same lines, it is possible that something disturbing or distracting may happen. The mind will become occupied by something alien to prayer and derailed from the clear path of mediation. The result will be a loss of the purpose of prayers, besides an offense of adultery committed by the eye, because the eye-by looking at forbidden things - can be guilty of adultery as much as the heart itself. Moreover, no Muslim man or woman is allowed during prayers to touch the body of another person of the opposite sex. If men and women stand side by side in prayer they cannot avoid touching each other. Furthermore, when a woman is praying in front of a man or beside him, it is very likely that any part of her dressed body may become uncovered after a certain motion of bowing or prostrating. The man's eye may happen to be looking at the uncovered part, with the result that she will be embarrassed and he will be exposed to distraction or possibly evil thoughts. So, to avoid any embarrassment and distraction to help concentrate on mediation and pure thoughts, to maintain harmony and order among worshippers, to fulfill the true purposes of prayers, Islam has ordained the organization of rows, whereby men stand in front lines, and women behind the children.Anyone with some knowledge of the nature and purpose of Muslim prayerscan readily understand the wisdom of organizing the lines of worshippers in this manner.

13. The Muslim woman is always associated with an old tradition known as the "veil". It is Islamic that the woman should beautify herself with the veil of honor, dignity, chastity, purity and integrity. She should refrain from all deeds and gestures that might stir the passions of people other than her legitimate husband or cause evil suspicion of her morality. She is warned not to display her charms or expose her physical attractions before strangers. The veil which she must put on is one that can save her soul from weakness, her mind from indulgence, her eyes from lustful looks, and her personality from demoralization. Islam is most concerned with the integrity of woman, with the safeguarding of her morals and morale and with the protection of her character and personality (cf. Qur'an, 24:30-31).


14. By now it is clear that the status of woman in Islam is unprecedentedly high and realistically suitable to her nature. Her rights and duties are equal to those of man but not necessarily or absolutely identical with them. If she is deprived of one thing in some aspect, she is fully compensated for it with more things in many other aspects. The fact that she belongs to the female sex has no bearing on her human status or independent personality, and it is no basis for justification of prejudice against her or injustice to her person. Islam gives her as much as is required of her. Her rights match beautifully with her duties. The balance between rights and duties is maintained, and no side overweighs the other. The whole status of woman is given clearly in the Qur'anic verse which may be translated as follows:

And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them, according to what is equitable; but man have a degree (of advantage as in some cases of inheritance) over them (2:228).

This degree is not a title of supremacy or an authorization of dominance over her. It is to correspond with the extra responsibilities of man and give him some compensation for his unlimited liabilities. The above mentioned verse is always interpreted in the light of another (4:34).

It is these extra responsibilities that give man a degree over woman in some economic aspects. It is not a higher degree in humanity or in character. Nor is it a dominance of one over the other or suppression of one by the other. It is a distribution of God's abundance according to the needs of the nature of which God is the Maker. And He knows best what is good for woman and what is good for man. God is absolutely true when He declares:

O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord, Who created you
from a single person, and created of like nature his mate,
and from them twain scattered (like seeds) countless men
and women (4:1).

Taken from - http://www.jannah.org/sisters/statuswomen.html

British Women and alcohol

In countries where drinking alcohol in the norm, such as ours, the men drank far more than the Women and hence men encounter more alcohol related problems.
Sadly in the last 20 or so years, the difference has narrowed considerably and the women have caught up.

Women are now drinking far more then ever before and this has also led to all other alcohol related difficulties faced by them.

A marked increase has been noted in teenagers, and especially in girls. Our Girls have become heavy drinkers and they do this particularly at weekends.
A woman drinking is fashionable and is seen as bringing out the independence in her.

The Number of women arrested for drink related offences has increased by nearly 60% and this also included serious crimes.

It is worth noting that this includes well educated young professional women who work in competition with men, particularly in all levels of management. They tend to be career women who have given up their traditional role as house wives and mothers.

It is interesting to note that traditionally it was the working class men who drank large amounts but today it is more educated women and this also includes women higher up the social ladder.

The reason why women may be doing this can be seen in the changing role of our women in society and their attitude and behaviour towards alcohol.

The changing of roles has brought new opportunities to drink than before and unlike before, women seen drinking openly has become socially acceptable but may be frowned up if they now do not conform.

We have seen incomes go up and generally this can bee seen in the increase of cars per household. The amount of money available has led to greater financial independence with not many on whom this can be spent, no family responsibilities.

All this mixed with the huge number of different variations in the different form of alcohol particularly aimed at the women has made it all too easy and enticing to try all the new varieties.

There is a big increase in women treated younger then ever before with a variety of alcohol related illnesses effecting women only.

Full report can be read - http://www.ias.org.uk/resources/factsheets/women.pdf

Our British Faith

There is a notable change to the thought direction of the people in West which began over 40 years ago. We have been in pursuit of a permissive society, there has been a steady erosion of authority and it is clear we have now taken on our own brand of morality.

We lock up and punish those who steal or murder and rightly so these people are considered criminals by our society.

You may recall from our country’s main religious book, the Bible “Thou shalt not commit adultery” was the law of our God handed down for all time? This now is missing from our social values.
Shameful is the fact that those who become heads of our state whilst carrying their religion on their sleeve and force feed us about their faith do not want to change the mind set of our people on this point.

It is very clear from those who run our affairs, they wish this commandment was missing and wish it gone from the tablets on which the Ten Commandments were written.
It is Worthing noting that all three monotheistic religions have the Ten Commandments in their scriptures.

If people can not see the error of their error
and the blind continuously lead the blind,
When man can judge who enter heaven
and condemns his fellow man to hell,
When man take on divine power to punish
and power to forgive,
What need be for God when man becomes God.
But ask man not to breathe and to stop his heart beat
then soon his mortality soon comes back to him,
Ask him to keep his life when he is at his death
or to bring the dead back to life
Then for man is a need for God
for man can not do become God.

Ever generation goes through its own unique challenges and our fathers were no different although they and their fathers fought two world wars, yet both kept some perspective on right and wrong, including premarital sex which was regarded as adultery but now it is the norm. Today parents can not wait for their children to go out with the opposite sex but with a warning, “protect your self from disease” but not “make sure you do nothing to let us down”.

Not too long ago marriage, especially in a church was something we looked forward to for our children but today this is history, as married couples in our country are a dying breed.
We have left our biblical foundation of marriage and the acceptance of God’s law behind us and this has resulted in deep damage to our western society.

If you were to read any recent study on attitude to marriage, you will read the percentages of marriages are on the down because marriage as an institution is in terminal decline.

There can be no doubt; the breakdown of family life has had catastrophic results on society. Today, our politicians realise this and some have tried to address this subject.
We often hear them declares that we must respond to the challenge of social breakdown by actively supporting marriage through the tax and benefits system.

Awful doctrine and dreadful principles will result in appalling life. So much has changed since the West moved away from a Christian foundation which though nominal still served to give a sense of stability and direction.

For our father’s generation, the religious books and the Ten Commandments were the benchmark and a reference point. There was discipline in the home and in the classroom. The parent supported the teacher and our bobby on the beat was a valued and admired member of our community.
Common decency prevailed in the country and there was respect for authority in the home and in society.

The extended family was a protection against crime. Divorce was rare and having a child out of wedlock was unheard off. Homosexuality was not so much as named among us. The press and the broadcasting authorities conformed to standards of morality and decency. Amazingly this also included many of our politicians to some degree.

The warning sign of a broken society are clearly visible. Our youngsters leave school without the fundamentals of an elementary education. Gun and knife crime amongst our disenchanted and feral youth has increased alarmingly.
In recent years a new trends have come to the fore, amongst these is car theft amongst pre-puberty youngsters.
Various studies show several factors were associated with the early initiation of offending (before age twelve), including social withdrawal and depression, positive attitude to problem behaviour, association with deviant peers, and family problems. In contrast, the later onset of offending (between ages thirteen and fourteen), among other factors, was associated with low school motivation and low self esteem.

Letter to Pakistan High Commission Jan 2006

Dr. Maleeha Lodhi
Pakistan High Commission,35 - 36 Lowndes Square, London SW1X 9JN.

8th January 2006
Dr. Lodhi
As salam alaykum


In light of the most recent earthquakes and the difficult conditions, we have teamed up once again as we did for the blanket appeal with BBC South (TV) and BBC Southern Counties radio & Muslim Aid.
We hope to make a short programme about the Earthquake hit regions of Asia, but especially Pakistan.

The idea is to bring to the attention of the British public the severe conditions that people are living under. To show that under almost impossible conditions the government of Pakistan with help from a number of NGO’s are working non-stop to try and improve the living conditions. How people are placing their own lives in danger to save the lives of others. To point out the problems of the inclement weather conditions and the difficulty with transport.
I am due to leave on the 17th of January and I shall return on the 28th of January.

I will be taken to the effected area where I shall be staying under the same conditions that are experience by those who are affected by the disaster.
I shall be keeping a written and video diary of my journey from start to finish.
This will be a wonderful opportunity for us as we have a free reign from the BBC and Muslim Aid. If it is possible, we would like to interview you regarding the current situation. The interview is non controversial and should not last then 15-20 minutes. We will be happy to come over to the embassy at a time that may suite you.

I am also hoping that we may be able to see President Musharraf to record a few words from him and for this I hope you may help us arrange this.

I realise you are a very busy but we hope you will be able to spare us a small amount of your time as this is a wonderful opportunity for us to raise the profile of this area and for all of us to work together but especially as this is a humanitarian cause and has affected Pakistan.

Kind regards

BHMF visit Pakistan Earthquake area Jan 2006


I have recently returned from Pakistan where I spent 5 days travelling, on behalf of the BHMF (Brighton and Hove Muslim Forum).

The BHMF, for its charitable work on the earthquake, associated itself with various Muslim Aid.

I visited the earthquake area as an independent observer to see how Muslim Aid are helping those whose lives have been so dramatically changed by the earthquake that struck Pakistan on the 8th of October with such remarkable ferocity.

We used the Sony PD-250 camera to record onto DSR 3 hour tapes. The recorded material is
about 8 hours long. I also made a personal recording of my visit from Heathrow to Pakistan not just on the above tapes but also on six Mini DV tapes as well. There is also audio material on MP3, as well as a hand written diary.

My aim is to bring to the notice of the British Muslims and non Muslims, the situation as it remains and the plight of those people whose lives have been changed for ever by the greatest earthquake to have hit our planet.




As an independent observer my first port of call was Islamabad. Here I saw for my self how Muslim Aid is helping those whose lives have been devastated. Those who experienced the tremors described the earthquake as the arrival of “Day of Judgement”. In this area Muslim Aid is looking after 300 tents that house about 2,300 people. As well as observing and recording what was going on, my aim was also to offer aid from the Money raised by BHMF from the Brighton and Hove area.

As we moved towards Abbottabad, we passed Mansehra on our way. We stopped at the Ayub Medical centre and spoke to medical staff from Australian, Africa, Malaysia and Poland, all of whom were working in the field hospital that was set up in the grounds of the medical centre. Among other victims, we saw children whose feet and legs had been cut off. We then drove on towards Balakot but stopped at a number of camps. This gave us another chance to talk to the locals to see and hear directly from them as to how they are coping in the aftermath of the earthquake.

We arrived late that night in Balakot and recorded a town in ruins. I can only imagine that Dresden was in such a state after being bombed by the Allies. This area was loved by the affluent for its scenic beauty; the rugged mountains, the gushing rivers and for the buildings that were built into the side of mountains were now all rubble. Five star hotels had turned into dust, hamlet had disappeared without trace and a flowing river that had changed its route.

We arrived late that afternoon and saw Muzaffarabad from about 2000 feet up, a city built into the valleys of some of the most beautiful mountain ranges, with a river that winds around it like a snake. An area perhaps 10 times greater in size to that of Balakot. Immediately our attention was drawn to a number of areas where tents had been erected. In some cases there were over a hundred tents in each area.

Here was perhaps the greatest damage as every where we drove we saw signs of the earthquake. Hundreds of building, cafĂ©’s restaurants, and shops told their own story as every where cracks were seen. Even the army was not spared and hundreds of soldiers were buried under a mountain slide. The devastation is so great that I do not believe there are sufficient words that one can use to describe what has happened to this area. Nothing any one can say that will make one realise the extent of the damage. It has to be seen to be believed. You, as some one who has already been there can appreciate this.

Two days after we left Muzaffarabad there was a small tremor which resulted in about twenty little homes that were built on the side of the mountain sliding down. All the inhabitants were killed along with 7 others who were caught up in this.

During our journey we spoke to many people about many issues; the locals themselves and how they are surviving, international and National NGO’s about how reconstruction is going and doctors and medical workers from all over the world; Cuba, Malaysia and , Australia and Africa. We also conversed with child psychologists about the emotional impact affecting the children. We chatted to a building expert from the USA and to the Major General from the Pakistan Army who is directly involved.

We hope to return in October once again where we will see what has happened after one year has lapsed.

If you are interested in the footage, please let me know and I can arrange for it to be sent to Islam Channel. Please note, we are happy for people to use the footage but the copyright belongs to BHMF.

Friday 11 July 2008

Any way - poem

Anyway People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered; forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives; be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win false friendsand some true enemies; succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building someone may destroy overnight; build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, others maybe jealous; be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, its all between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway.

— Uknown Author